Want to be quoted in the updated edition of Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation?

October 23, 2021

Have you heard the epic news?! I’m currently working on an updated and expanded edition of Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation and am launching a new survey to build on the data and quotes gathered the last time around. I’m very interested in your experience! Psychological play is so complex, and I’d like…

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Enough to Make You Blush: Expanded Edition Coming Soon!

October 23, 2021

Since I published the first edition of Enough to Make You Blush in 2015, I have been incredibly honored by the response over the years. This book has transformed my passion into a driving purpose and, more importantly, helped countless readers feel seen and understood — often for the very first time.   That’s why I’m…

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Ethical Financial Domination: Virtual Intensive – January 9, 2021 (Sold Out!)

October 22, 2020

Are you ready to discover a whole new approach to enjoying financial fetish? Do you believe that ethics and financial fetish are not mutually exclusive?   The January 2021 Ethical Financial Domination: Virtual Intensive is Sold Out!   Interested in attending in the future? Fill out the application form below.   [Take Me To The…

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Why would anyone want to GIVE UP orgasms?!

July 18, 2019

Imagine that sweet feeling of anticipation before you’re headed out on vacation, or when you’re waiting in line for your favorite food. That tension of wanting the good stuff to hurry up and happen all the while daydreaming about how it is going to feel when it finally does.  Now pair that feeling with orgasms. …

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Is Ethical Financial Domination Even Possible?

July 8, 2019

Yesterday I received this message in my Fetlife inbox. “Is Ethical Financial Domination even possible?” I’m always a bit surprised to hear this from fellow kinksters, though I shouldn’t be. Can’t that question be applied to everything we do? “Is ethical [your favorite kink here] even possible?  Someone who doesn’t understand how consent and context…

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National Humiliation Day 2018

September 9, 2018

It’s almost time to celebrate the 3rd annual National Erotic Humiliation Day, and I hope you’ll join me in all the kinky fun! It’s time to get ready to celebrate your favorite pervy holiday of the year, a time when we can let all of the deliciously dirty desires out in full form, and share…

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I remember the very first DomCon…

May 11, 2018

I remember the very first DomCon at the Beverly Garland hotel nestled in Hollywood. I don’t remember how I first heard about DomCon but I do remember how excited I was there. I was 23 years old and had only recently discovered the BDSM world and in my usual way through myself into it and…

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More Podcasts! The Dildorks, Off the Cuff & American Sex

February 26, 2018

Oh yes, I so LOVE talking about psychological torment so podcasts are one of my favorite things! I’ve been talking to some more super smart sex geeks and here are the results – 3 new podcast interviews (all recorded at the end of 2017) talking about all my favorite kinky topics. Take a listen! _______________________________…

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The Sissy Truth or Dare Deck

January 30, 2018

As a follow up to the original Humiliation Truth or Dare game, I’m delighted to announce the very first ‘expansion deck’ – the Sissy Edition! This frilly, flouncy game will bring spontaneous fun to your sissy play. You can use it in a private one-on-one session or with a group at a sissy party! The…

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Have you attended one of my classes? Please share your feedback!

January 25, 2018

Have you attended one of my in-person or online classes? I’d love to hear your feedback! I’m always working to improve my content and delivery and appreciate you taking a few moments out of your day to help me do that. Create your own user feedback survey

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