Scene Starters Deck Now Available!

December 23, 2015

Have you ever been in the middle of a scene with your partner groveling at your feet, and all you could muster is a measly… “yeah, you slut…” as your voice trailed off in uncertainty? Or maybe you have a list of filthy favorites, embarrassing or degrading words that make your submissive shiver, but you’d…

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3 Ways You Can Improve Your Verbal Play During Erotic Humiliation

December 13, 2015

Words are one of the most powerful tools we have in kinky play. Engaging the mind is such an important part of arousal, but often we have little experience speaking up about our desires. The act of using words to engage your playmate’s brain is so efficient and effective, but people can be scared off…

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Join me in San Francisco for a book party! – January 24, 2016

December 8, 2015

To celebrate my recently released book Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation, I invite you all to Wicked Grounds for a mini-class & demo along with a book signing! Wicked Grounds – 289 8th St, San Francisco, CA 94103 Sunday January 24, 2016 7pm – 10pm Come join us for a chance to:…

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Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation is ready & available for sale!

November 20, 2015

Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation is ready and available for sale! I am so proud of this book and I hope you enjoy it. Buy yourself a copy or get one for a friend or partner for the upcoming holiday season – Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation in both…

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Help me get the word out!

November 11, 2015

I’ve had quite a few inquiries about ways that my friends and fans can help (yay, you guys rock!) so I thought I’d make one handy place to find suggestions and posts*. The first few are super easy that will take hardly any time at all! Ways to help Buy the book! – This one…

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Recommendations & Resources

September 15, 2015

This is an on-going list of recommendations that you’ll also find scattered through-out my blog posts and in the book. Many of these links are affiliate, you can read my disclosure post here. Websites — This is a website I created in 2007 which now features over 1400 videos by over 125 educators (myself…

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Humiliation or Abuse?

August 31, 2015

“But I raised you to be a nice girl….” This is what my mother says when erotic humiliation comes up, and considering what I do for a living it comes up exponentially more than it might for others. Of course, the terms erotic humiliation or erotic embarrassment aren’t phrases that my mom use, to her…

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Professional Domination Recommendations

May 2, 2015

I’ve been retired from the Professional Domination world for quite some time. If that’s what you’re looking for, save us both the trouble and call one of these lovely ladies instead, who I would personally recommend to help you scratch that itch. This is by NO MEANS a complete list of Professional Dominants who offer…

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It’s almost ready!

May 1, 2015

Update: Oh, the joys of self publishing! After a few more bumps and delays we’re back on track for a November release. I really appreciate your patience, I want this book to be the best it can be! Writing a book is a really involved project. The seedling of an idea gets planted and then…

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