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Aftercare is for Everyone!

April 27, 2016

For the first decade of my exploration in the kink scene, whenever I heard about Aftercare it was in the context of something the dominant was supposed to provide to the submissive. It was very clear, due to the tone and nature of any discussion about Aftercare that there was definitely “One Twue Way” of…

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Two New Podcast Interviews

April 1, 2016

March was a great month for podcast interviews! There’s quite a few popular sexuality podcasts available, and two of my personal favorites happened to have invited me on to talk this last month. In The Swingset For In The Swingset, we focused on cuckolding, since the podcast is focused on swinging & cuckolding is one…

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Nudity & Exhibitionism

March 5, 2016

Nudity is a powerful social taboo to play with. Even in 2016, in the US we’re still afraid of nipples being exposed and  feeling scandalized when a man shows frontal nudity on Showtime. By society’s standards, being naked in front of others makes you either a slut or a pervert or both! (I’m in the…

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The Power of Words

February 24, 2016

Words can be a powerful tool in kinky scenes, but are often underused. It’s easy to find places to learn about flogging or spanking or bondage, but not so easy to find ways to learn about incorporating verbal into scenes. When I play, I’m incredible verbal. I’ve found words to be the most versatile way…

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Here a landmine, there a landmine: What to do when things go wrong

February 10, 2016

One of my most often uttered sayings when it comes to humiliation play is this… “It’s not if something will go wrong, it’s when.” This really would hold true for any kinky play (or life as a whole), and I’ve seen that the most dangerous mistakes happen when a dominant is overly arrogant that it…

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Twitter Reviews for Enough to Make You Blush

February 7, 2016

I love twitter and I super love seeing the photos & recommendation readers have been sharing! If you have a photo with your copy of Enough To Make You Blush, please make sure I see it by including the hastag #EnoughToMakeYouBlush and my current handle – @ThePrincessKali I’ve also started an instagram page, so come…

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Why the hell would anyone do this?

January 19, 2016

I saw a post in the largest humiliation themed group on Fetlife and offered an answer. Realizing that this is probably a question a lot of kinksters deal with, I decided to post it here as well. Here’s a paraphrase of her question… After showing my new boyfriend pictures from when my last girlfriend (consensually)…

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Appearance on ‘The People of Kink’ Radio

January 13, 2016

I was invited to be a guest on ‘The People Of Kink’ Radio and had an absolutely delightful time chatting with the hosts, Crazy Heart and Ruby Tuesday. Listen in our conversation while we talk about my experience as a professional dominatrix, why I enjoy erotic humiliation play, why I launched KinkAcademy.com and more. You…

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Scene Starters Deck Now Available!

December 23, 2015

Have you ever been in the middle of a scene with your partner groveling at your feet, and all you could muster is a measly… “yeah, you slut…” as your voice trailed off in uncertainty? Or maybe you have a list of filthy favorites, embarrassing or degrading words that make your submissive shiver, but you’d…

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3 Ways You Can Improve Your Verbal Play During Erotic Humiliation

December 13, 2015

Words are one of the most powerful tools we have in kinky play. Engaging the mind is such an important part of arousal, but often we have little experience speaking up about our desires. The act of using words to engage your playmate’s brain is so efficient and effective, but people can be scared off…

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