Nudity & Exhibitionism

March 5, 2016

Nudity is a powerful social taboo to play with. Even in 2016, in the US we’re still afraid of nipples being exposed and  feeling scandalized when a man shows frontal nudity on Showtime. By society’s standards, being naked in front of others makes you either a slut or a pervert or both! (I’m in the…

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The Power of Words

February 24, 2016

  Words can be a powerful tool in kinky scenes, but are often underused. It’s easy to find places to learn about flogging or spanking or bondage, but not so easy to find ways to learn about incorporating verbal into scenes. When I play, I’m incredible verbal. I’ve found words to be the most versatile…

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Here a landmine, there a landmine: What to do when things go wrong

February 10, 2016

  One of my most often uttered sayings when it comes to humiliation play is this… “It’s not if something will go wrong, it’s when.” This really would hold true for any kinky play (or life as a whole), and I’ve seen that the most dangerous mistakes happen when a dominant is overly arrogant that…

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Twitter Reviews for Enough to Make You Blush

February 7, 2016

I love twitter and I super love seeing the photos & recommendation readers have been sharing! If you have a photo with your copy of Enough To Make You Blush, please make sure I see it by including the hastag #EnoughToMakeYouBlush and my current handle – @ThePrincessKali I’ve also started an instagram page, so come…

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Why the hell would anyone do this?

January 19, 2016

I saw a post in the largest humiliation themed group on Fetlife and offered an answer. Realizing that this is probably a question a lot of kinksters deal with, I decided to post it here as well. Here’s a paraphrase of her question… After showing my new boyfriend pictures from when my last girlfriend (consensually)…

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Scene Starters Deck Now Available!

December 23, 2015

Have you ever been in the middle of a scene with your partner groveling at your feet, and all you could muster is a measly… “yeah, you slut…” as your voice trailed off in uncertainty? Or maybe you have a list of filthy favorites, embarrassing or degrading words that make your submissive shiver, but you’d…

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3 Ways To Improve Your Verbal Play During Erotic Humiliation

December 13, 2015

  Words are one of the most powerful tools we have in kinky play. Engaging the mind is such an important part of arousal, but often we have little experience speaking up about our desires. The act of using words to engage your playmate’s brain is so efficient and effective, but people can be scared…

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Join me in San Francisco for a book party! January 24, 2016

December 8, 2015

    To celebrate my recently released book Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation, I invite you all to Wicked Grounds for a mini-class & demo along with a book signing! Wicked Grounds – 289 8th St, San Francisco, CA 94103 Sunday January 24, 2016 7pm – 10pm Come join us for a…

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Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation available for sale!

November 20, 2015

  Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation is ready and available for sale! I am so proud of this book and I hope you enjoy it. Buy yourself a copy or get one for a friend or partner for the upcoming holiday season – Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation in…

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Recommendations & Resources

September 15, 2015

This is an on-going list of recommendations that you’ll also find scattered through-out my blog posts and in the book. Many of these links are affiliate, you can read my disclosure post here. Websites — This is a website I created in 2007 which now features over 1400 videos by over 125 educators (myself…

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