A Unique Exploration of Erotic Humiliation

Discover the versatility and fun of consensual psychological torment play.


About Princess Kali


Princess Kali has spent over eighteen years exploring not only the how but the why of alternative lifestyles.

Kali's experience working as a professional dominatrix has given her a unique understanding of the motivations behind erotic humiliation play as well as a passion for helping people participate in it more safely and enjoyably. Her dynamic and engaging style of presenting has been welcomed at more than 150 venues including kink events such as Dark Odyssey, Fetish Fair Fleamarket, Kink in the Caribbean, and IMsL as well as mainstream venues such as Harvard University and SXSW.

As the founder of Erotication.com she is a pioneer of the “kinktrepreneur” business model, creating sites such as Kink Academy, Passionate U, and Fearless Press for easy access to adult sex and BDSM education. Her work continues to inspire and support many other kink educators, writers, and enthusiasts. She’s also the author of 5 books; Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation and companion workbook, Authentic Kink, 365 Days of Kink Journal, and The Yes, No, Maybe Workbook.

Princess Kali is currently focusing on personal coaching and group workshops to help people safely discover their own style of kink with the benefit of her experience and guidance. Kali resides in the San Francisco area but travels often for workshops and events.

Work With Kali

Work Directly With Kali

Kali offers insightful solo and couples coaching sessions for lifestyle and professional kinksters. Get personalized, action-oriented advice to help you build the kinky life of your dreams.

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Kali is an entertaining, informative, powerhouse speaker who instigates unexpected ah-ha moments for her audiences. She uses storytelling and humor to keep listeners engaged while giving them concrete and actionable advice.

Visit CoachingByKali.com for more information!

A Deeper Shade of Red: Weekend Intensive

Spend three days in a fully immersive educational environment to discover an in-depth understanding of your most complex desires.

Identify your interests and limits.

Expand your psychological skill set.

Transform your erotic experiences.


Singles, Couples & Triads welcome.

Submissives, Dominants & Switches welcome - all-genders & levels of experience.

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