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Disapproval and kink shaming

December 29, 2025

I try to look out for the signs of it in myself, because it’s something that naturally comes up. An involuntary response inside me that says…. “Oh My God, you do WHAT?!?!” At the height of my kink exploration (I’m in a hibernation state at the moment) a lot of the play I did would…

Is playing with real social oppression dynamics ethical in erotic humiliation?

December 25, 2025

@iWantClips@Princess_Kali As the humiliation queen, would love to hear your input on Racial Humiliation as a fetish vs blatant racism! :) — Ms Riley (@MsRileyNF) May 4, 2016 Last week this showed up in my mentions on twitter and I think it raises a really interesting aspect of exploring erotic humiliation. iWantClips.com has the right…

Want to be quoted in the updated edition of Enough to Make You Blush?

October 23, 2021

Have you heard the epic news?! I’m currently working on an updated and expanded edition of Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation and am launching a new survey to build on the data and quotes gathered the last time around. I’m very interested in your experience! Psychological play is so complex, and I’d like…

Enough to Make You Blush: Expanded Edition Coming Soon!

October 23, 2021

Since I published the first edition of Enough to Make You Blush in 2015, I have been incredibly honored by the response over the years. This book has transformed my passion into a driving purpose and, more importantly, helped countless readers feel seen and understood — often for the very first time.   That’s why I’m…

Ethical Financial Domination: Virtual Intensive – January 9, 2021

October 22, 2020

Are you ready to discover a whole new approach to enjoying financial fetish? Do you believe that ethics and financial fetish are not mutually exclusive?   The January 2021 Ethical Financial Domination: Virtual Intensive is Sold Out!   Interested in attending in the future? Fill out the application form below.   [Take Me To The…

Why would anyone want to GIVE UP orgasms?!

July 18, 2019

Imagine that sweet feeling of anticipation before you’re headed out on vacation, or when you’re waiting in line for your favorite food. That tension of wanting the good stuff to hurry up and happen all the while daydreaming about how it is going to feel when it finally does.  Now pair that feeling with orgasms. …

Is Ethical Financial Domination Even Possible?

July 8, 2019

Yesterday I received this message in my Fetlife inbox. “Is Ethical Financial Domination even possible?” I’m always a bit surprised to hear this from fellow kinksters, though I shouldn’t be. Can’t that question be applied to everything we do? “Is ethical [your favorite kink here] even possible?  Someone who doesn’t understand how consent and context…

National Humiliation Day 2018

September 9, 2018

It’s almost time to celebrate the 3rd annual National Erotic Humiliation Day, and I hope you’ll join me in all the kinky fun! It’s time to get ready to celebrate your favorite pervy holiday of the year, a time when we can let all of the deliciously dirty desires out in full form, and share…

Q&A: How do I bring a 2nd Dominant into my cuckolding relationship?

January 31, 2018

I recently received this email and thought it would make a great blog post to share my thoughts with everyone! Dear Princess Kali, I have read a lot about you and have seen many of your videos and I really appreciate what you bring to the kink community. Even though I have never heard you…

The Sissy Truth or Dare Deck

January 30, 2018

As a follow up to the original Humiliation Truth or Dare game, I’m delighted to announce the very first ‘expansion deck’ – the Sissy Edition! This frilly, flouncy game will bring spontaneous fun to your sissy play. You can use it in a private one-on-one session or with a group at a sissy party! The…

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