After a recent class in San Jose, CA one of the attendees messaged me with the question… Do you have any suggestions about where to start as a top? Like, did you start by peeing on people, or having them worship your feet, or making them blow into a pinwheel for an hour..?” The pinwheel…

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For the first decade of my exploration in the kink scene, whenever I heard about Aftercare it was in the context of something the dominant was supposed to provide to the submissive. It was very clear, due to the tone and nature of any discussion about Aftercare that there was definitely “One Twue Way” of…

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