May 112018

I remember the very first DomCon at the Beverly Garland hotel nestled in Hollywood. I don’t remember how I first heard about DomCon but I do remember how excited I was there. I was 23 years old and had only recently discovered the BDSM world and in my usual way through myself into it and jumped in with both feet. DomCon seemed like it was going to be a paradise of dominant women and that’s exactly what I found.

The first year the hotel had booked us in with both a high school marching band and a church choir. So it was an interesting mix, to say the least!

I remember being at the meet and greet with leather and latex clad dominants all kinds and styles and hearing the church choir singing hymns in the conference room across the way. I remember the freedom of walking around the hotel grounds with a submissive on my leash and the exhilaration of meeting other powerful women who were like me and yet so unlike me.

The camaraderie of dominant women FemDomme, ProDomme women especially has grown over these years that I have had the pleasure of being involved in this community and industry. DomCon is a HUGE part of that.

What Mistress Cyan created was and is the only space for professionally dominant women. And as the event has grown professional dominants of all stripes and lifestyle dominants too have joined the conference. It’s a place where professionals can go and be proud to advertise their service s  and interests because lifestyle conferences are so often unwelcome even though many many many pros are lifestyle in their private lives as well.

Over the years I’m proud to have been involved in DomCon in many ways; as a presenter, as an attendee, as a vendor, and as a board member for a short time. 

Every year that I’m able to make it I feel that same sense of exhilaration, in fact maybe more. Because every year I return I have the opportunity to reconnect with women that I’ve met and built friendships with. I have the opportunity to learn and connect with and from and with other dominants and new dominant in the industry. I feel at home at DomCon in a place where big personalities and quiet power each command their own type of respect.

We are a world of intense, intelligent, creative, and brilliant women and I’m proud to have been a ProDomme and to still have a place in this world even though I’m long retired. In my heart, mind, and actions I will be a dominant woman my entire life.

Since retiring six years ago I have found it very hard to walk away from the ProDomme community. Not that I ever really wanted to. I will be forever grateful for the level of interestingness and curiosity and utterly unique experiences I have had because of this career path. There is a special part of that that is directly because of the women that I know and adore.

Even if we don’t get to see each other very often, even if we fall out of touch DomCon is that reconnection place, it as a place to come and spend time with with people that you care about people that are like you and people that share your interests as well as people that are utterly and completely from a different perspective and path. Through DomCon, Cyan gives us space for this utter collision of brilliance and creativity and perversion!

Now, with attacks on sexual freedom and against sex workers specifically I am redrawn to this world. The last few years I have been slowly working on spreading my Bitch Stigma message as well as taking my speaking skills into more mainstream space without betraying my history.

While I continue to work towards those goals, this is a time when solidarity is key.

So I am thrilled to be going back to DomCon this year to be standing in solidarity with my with my former colleagues who are still fighting this fight as active sex workers and I am absolutely thrilled to lend support and strength and applause to not only Mistress Cyan but also the entire DomCon Board who continues to produce this vital event year after year.

May 022015

I’ve been retired from the Professional Domination world for quite some time. If that’s what you’re looking for, save us both the trouble and call one of these lovely ladies instead, who I would personally recommend to help you scratch that itch.

This is by NO MEANS a complete list of Professional Dominants who offer humiliation, or even a completely list of every Pro Domme that I know that does humiliation. But it’s a good start with a wide variety of women in a wide range of locations. I’ll update this list occasionally. Do NOT contact me further to request recommendations, that’s why I created this list.

Also, if you’re interested in doing sessions with Professional Dominants I recommend you attend DomCon (they have one in LA and Atlanta every year). It’s a great way to meet these women and explore the world of Professional Domination.

I’ve linked to their websites which will have information about booking a session. I tried to include their usual location, but many of them travel both nationally and internationally.

PS – Bonus point for the submissives that offer to buy any of these Women my erotic humiliation book!


In No Particular Order – (I’ll be adding more of these little descriptor blurbs over time, until then, just click on the link to find out more)

Alice In Bondageland – San Francisco, CA –  (She says… “I specialize in “laughing at your predicament” style humiliation more then the destroy-your-confidence kind”)

Ceara Lynch – Portland, OR – (doesn’t do in person sessions but is infamous on cam/phone)

Domina Snow – Columbus, Ohio – (Owner & Founder of Wicked Eden, a BDSM wonderland of sessions & FemDomme videos)

Kelle Martina – Columbus, Ohio – (One of the lovely Wicked Eden Ladies, with a sweet girl-next-door look that hides a sadist!)

Eve Minax – San Francisco, CA – (An avid medical play enthusiast who also enjoy bondage & lots of other pervy fun stuff)

Irene Boss – Pittsburgh, PA – (A legendary Dominatrix, she’ll blow your mind doing just about any kinky thing she imagines.)

Mistress Servalan – Sydney, Australia – (Wicked, witty & wonderfully sadistic all describe this elegant Aussie Domme)

Mistress Simone – Chicago & St Louis – (Brilliant and beautiful, she’s an old-school Domme who is well-versed in a huge range of ways to play)

Elena DeLuca – New York, NY – (Owner of Fascist FemDomme, she’s both strict & sensual)

Maitresse Renee – Dallas, TX – (this Southern Belle is always smiling, & you should be delightfully afraid of that!)

Goddess Phoenix – Atlanta, GA – (Powerful and intimidating in all the right ways)

Rebecca Knox – Los Angeles, CA – (Elegant & cruel, her wit will turn you into a fool, and you’ll thank her for it)

Dante Posh – New York, NY

Natalya Sadici – Chicago, IL – (I think of Natalya as a quiet power, she doesn’t need to shout at you to bend you to her will. But bend you will ;)

Shauna Ryanne – Las Vegas, NV (+ lots of travel) – (Red headed and just as sassy as the stereotype would lead you to believe. Shauna is a particular favorite w/ foot lovers)

Princess Marxx – Los Angeles, CA & Boston, MA – (I’ve known this lovely lady since she got her start at my Footnight events. She’s classy & gorgeous!)

Jada Sinn – Boston, MA

Sheri Darling – Orange County, CA + Los Angeles, CA

Penny Barber – San Francisco, CA – (Has a sexy mix of being adorable, cute, and super sensual. Specializes in ADBL & Age Play)

Miss Kristy Tina – Dallas, TX

Vinyl Queen – San Francisco, CA

Mistress Absolute – London, England – (I think of this dynamite woman as a Domination Tornado, you should be ready to be destroyed, but you know, in an awesome kinky way)

January Seraph – San Francisco, CA

Bella Vendetta – Western MA

Mistress Jadis – Sydney, Australia

Emma Evans – Bay Area, CA

Megan Church – Austin, TX